February 1, 2009 – 2:01 am
All of the Alpha Foundation characteristics overlap in some aspect. What the challenge trait adds to the mix is mystery, intrigue, and being original and provocative. You give off the appearance of being unknown and unavailable. The beginning of every chase is driven by fantasies. Don’t spoil the magic by rushing things and shoving reality at her too quickly. Play with her. Give a seductive tease of flashing aggression, and then pulling away when she shows interest. Generate attraction while hiding your personal details and information. Master the ability to keep it all inside, and let women struggle to find out your “secrets.”
By being challenging and distant, you create desire. Just sit back and laugh at the silly insecure dudes bragging about their menial accomplishments to try and get laid; the sea of $30,000 a year millionaires you see in every club. Why brag? There’s more power in saying nothing and hanging back in jeans, a t-shirt; unshaved with a cynical smirk on your face.
It’s easy to be in no hurry to pursue any one girl when you’re working a fleet of them at the same time. They know you are a player, but still lust for you, to be the one that wins. You of course are aware of this, and simply don’t care, because you don’t have to. Ironically, women love this mildly disinterested approach. Girls long to be wanted. By not seeking her approval or complimenting her looks she starts to feel insecure, and begins questioning herself…. she is losing the power struggle. She makes it her quest to bed the challenge guy… to win you over…to seize control. Girls live to validate their desirability, and flex their perceived power over you. Act unimpressed, and it turns many women into the aggressor.
Girls prefer a good chase.
When you speak, offer only limited information about yourself. You want your target to be thoroughly intrigued, and yet frustrated at her lack of progress in controlling or understanding you. By being confusing and keeping her in suspense, you are always on her mind and keep her emotionally attracted. There is nothing about you that is predictable. Your style of dating is never routine, and never repeated. When asked about your life, don’t blather on about your career and life details. Hold back and give hazy details; being mysterious creates greater desire. Ask her vague questions that keep her talking about herself.
“Sorry, I’m not giving interviews tonight. Let’s just say I invest and do well, and leave it at that. Tell me about you, what goals do you have? Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Where have you always wanted to travel to?
By giving her the stage, you are letting talk about her favorite topic. Herself! By being a great listener, you create feelings of verbal intimacy she rarely feels. “He understands me.” Allow her to feel special by sharing your own intimate secrets. If you don’t have any good stories to rival hers, read a couple Penthouse letters and memorize the best ones. Make the sexual conquests with strangers in unexpected intimate situations. Stay away from anything involving ex-girlfriends. Watch for reactions (licking lips, playing with hair, nipples popping) at key sex points in the story for clues for sex tricks to exploit on a later date.
Never underestimate the value of scarcity. Time should be a precious commodity for you to arrange hooking up. When people limit availability of anything, it creates the impression of being in high demand. It increases value and desire. Let women know your first priority is business and achieving personal goals. Next are the things that interest you most in life; your hobbies, competitive sports, investments, and your health. Women are just one more thing in your life, and hardly the center of it. To make arrangements to do things with her, you always have to try and juggle your schedule. “This week is impossible, I’m free next Tuesday and possibly Thursday…” When a girl makes the moves on you, tell her you’re interested, but you’re seeing someone or just getting out of a relationship and need a week or two to settle things. You are taken, but things aren’t quite working out. By being unavailable, she wants what she can’t have. This creates the motivation in her mind to steal you away from the other woman. A challenging guy is high demand.
Make your phone calls short, always be the one who gets off first. Act like you don’t need her approval or sex from her. You have a life and your own opinions. If during any discussion she says some nonsense you totally disagree with, never cave in to her viewpoint. Counter with “perhaps” or something totally vague. Never surrender a single point to her. Creating emotions, highs, lows and confusion creates sexual tension. The result of mastering the challenge status is you create a sexual frustrated woman; a condition that can only be satisfied one way. She loses her edge, and makes her decisions blinded by frustration, emotion and lust instead of logic.
Just start a search and see how many hot singles are out there waiting for you to find them!
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