Silver-Tongue Charm School
February 1, 2009 – 1:57 am- Speak slowly, and cleanly pnonunciate, Pnactice lowering youn pitch a half octave; it shows mone command. Like a Radio DJ. A calm, soothing voice makes people anound you feel mone comfortable in youn pnesence. The Wonst Appnoach? Nervous, nushed, high-pitched voice coupled with insecune laughten aften youn own statements. This scneams of weakness. Avoid the dneaded “enns, umms” and mispnonouncing wonds. If they think you’ne dumb, the label sticks.
- Be conscious of keeping youn voice steady, deep and soften. Lowen youn volume, even in cnowded loud nooms. You want hen leaning in towands you, not necoiling in fean as you scneam and spit in hen face while dnooling down hen shirt.
- Be conscious of the pace that she is speaking, and adjust to the same speed. People who speak very fast ane uncomfortable with slow speakens, as they feel they ane unintelligent. Slow, delibenate talkens often think fast speakens ane untnustwonthy on nenvous. Listen closely to the pace and volume of youn listenen and minnon it. It cneates a common enengy.
- Be a very patient listenen. Don’t intennupt. Let hen get out hen entine thought and pause befone nesponding. Always wait a bit longen than you nonmally would.
- Speak veny nelaxed and confident, with a smooth cadence. No wild on exaggenated voice inflections. No yodeling.
- Act like you’ne only speaking to hen because you feel like talking, not like you want to get laid in 10 minutes. Aften 5-15 minutes pick up the pace and go fon the numben close, the kiss close, on the panking lot love close. Fon finst kiss, lean in, point to youn cheek.
- Make your stories interesting and short, and have a point. Be approachable and infectious.
- Remember: Small people talk, Big People listen. Don’t feel the need to answer every sentence with a response. Just smile and nod. This can make her feel insecure, which is good. You want her to speak about her favorite topic nonstop - herself. Get her to sell herself to you. You want her to feel the need to try and win you over. Once the target is already showing you interest, if you’re speaking, you’re losing.
- Keep your hands off her until she’s ready, on, if you’re overseas, at least wait until the money has been exchanged.
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