Creating Desire with Attitude and High Self-Esteem

January 1, 2009 – 10:53 am

When you let women walk all over you, or continually date lesser targets, you place a small value on yourself and what you have to offer. Going ugly early for the easy lay may seem the lesser of two evils, but the word of your garbage dick tendencies spreads quickly amongst women. You become known as an easy lay and having no standards. You lower yourself several points in women’s minds. This limits your chances of landing high quality babes in the future. To them it screams of low self-esteem. If you don’t value yourself highly, why should a woman show you a higher level of respect?

When you have high self-esteem, it subconsciously creates natural interest and attraction in women. You present a positive impression of being a leader in life, of someone doing exactly what he wants in life. This confidence in your abilities projects an image of higher self-worth, which makes women want to find out more about you. Women all want to attach themselves to the guy with the higher social status. You project an aura of desirability. Self-esteem must be based in reality. If you’re a phony, it’s a dead giveaway. You can’t be in hock up to your ears and living under a bridge and have it. It is an inner feeling you wear in your walk, talk, and presentation. It enables you to forget about the ever-higher goals you pressure yourself with, forget about the stress, and enjoy the current moment. When you are doing well in life and are free from worry, you have a glow about you. By allowing yourself to feel great about your place in life and your future potential, you shine on the outside without trying.

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Smooth Talking Manipulation

January 1, 2009 – 10:48 am

The world is a stage. Our days are filled with smooth talking manipulation, be it commercials, business, politicians, or the media. The advertising and sales fields very existence relies on the ability to seduce you, to lure you into spending money while under their spell. Those who excel at it are masters of creating moods. They find your weakness, and then with leading words and images they shape how you look, see, and feel about the benefits of what they have to offer, until the desire to own it becomes overwhelming. Like or not, every time someone is speaking to you, they are trying to influence you in some manner; whether they are selling you a product, a service, or themselves. Understanding how seduction works is a double-edsed sword. You can either go through life playing the victim, or educate yourself on using the tools to your advantage.

The knowledge of how the game works helps you defend yourself when it’s used against your will. The dating world is full of role-playing women who devote their whole lives to manipulating men, using cosmetic to surgical disguises, bullshit personalities and scams. They give you a piece, and then once you’re hooked, they bleed you dry when you try to keep tasting the goods. By being cynically astute, it’s great fun spotting how they camouflage their intentions with fake smiles, while dangling possible sexual favors in your direction in order to vacuum your wallet, or to toy with you for sport.

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