A Solid Alpha Foundation
January 25, 2009 – 6:33 amThe Tools of Seduction begin with studying and mastering a Solid Alpha Foundation; a charismatic magnetic presence that appeals universally to women; mastering your attitude, class, smoothness and style. Without the right image, your conversation skills will fail to accent your presentation. The foundation is an overall perceived appearance that creates instant attraction and desire in women. People unconsciously pass judgment after a few seconds of glancing at you. We do the same thing with women. When panning a room, we lock on to a couple of hotties, and the rest of the girls are invisible. Fatties could be butt naked juggling flaming bowling pins in the corner and we wouldn’t see them. A strong Alpha Presentation accelerates your seduction skills without uttering a word.
A good first impression makes it easy to slide into conversations. Your closing ratio skyrockets if you get their eyes locked on you before you approach them in the first place. Whether the image is accurate, or a work in progress is irrelevant. Showcasing a strong confident persona and look changes the whole terrain in your favor. Here’s a list of qualities that women visualize as most desirable in their man, traits that immediately create subconscious inner attraction and lust.
- The Alpha Look
- Strong Body Language
- High Self-Confidence
- High Self-Esteem
- Social Status - Leader of the Group
- A Challenge - Creating Intrigue
- The Experienced Player
- Intelligent and Passionate
- Lack of Insecurity
- Never Seeking Approval
- High Standards
- Credibility - Trustworthiness
All of these characteristics are easily recognized visually, as they are action based. It shows a man in complete control, and secure with himself; a man who has a clear defined direction, who leads a successful, busy life and is noticeably well on his way to going places. One glance and a woman sees a man who carries himself with poise and stability, who oozes self-assurance and coolness, and is completely unconcerned with other people’s opinions. More than anything, what you need to display is a Confident Attitude.
Hollywood has several characters that portray this alpha image in picture perfect fashion. In Oceans Eleven, pay close attention to the characters played by George Clooney? Andy Garcia and Brad Pitt. Of course, the epitome of smooth and strong is James Bond. Each of these roles exudes extreme alpha confidence. The body language is silky smooth, classy, and never intimidated…almost to the point of seeming slow motion at times. Before attempting to tackle this image, it might help if you’re at least the second generation upright in the family tree.
The roles sound like a lot to pull off at first, but here’s a little insight. Actors play these roles. I repeat. The images you see and experience are played by people acting. The scenes are rehearsed over and over and over until the correct image, presence and emotion desired are captured on film. Clooney, Pitt, and The Bondsmen were not born with these traits; they developed them through rigorous practice. These guys had more than their share of uncomfortable, dork moments with women in their high school years.
As actors, they consciously learned to master the specific nuances needed to make the parts they play seem real. In doing so, the more they practiced it, the more natural they became at conveying the appropriate image. Eventually, like many actors, the roles that they play emulate a lifestyle and identity they choose as their own in real life. The game slowly fades away, until the identity becomes who they are. Sound familiar?
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