Fine Tuning Your Alpha Image
January 25, 2009 – 6:33 amIf you’re tall, dark, and devilishly handsome, women will constantly make the moves on you. Yet looks, fame, and fortune will only carry you so far if you have weak game. You’ll get a buffet of first dates, but you still have to display a smooth, dominant Alpha image and style to generate longevity. As luck would have it, most natural born studs and trust fund boys are often their own worst enemy. Since they require little effort for getting first dates, they rarely develop the tools and techniques needed to keep the trophy babes in a steady relationship. Many are flat out boring, arrogant, and lack a sense of humor, just like the bimbo babes on the female side. The A-team players are really not to be feared at all, as their playing field bares no resemblance to yours. Like the T Rex, they are only concerned with devouring the quick, easy, high quality meat, and moving on. When you’re at the top of the pecking order, you rarely return for seconds. Why would you? It’s a tad difficult trying to picture T Rex cowering in the corner while a bloated Momma Rex bops him over the head with a frying pan, while ragging on and on about his lack of emotional sensitivity towards her ever evolving imaginary needs, biological clock ticking, not to mention him forgetting to stop by Wal Mart for tampons, diapers, and size 16 granny white underwear.
For the rest of us bachelors out in the field, to achieve higher status you must project Alpha behavioral patterns that stimulate a woman’s initial feelings of attraction. This is the all-important core ingredient of the first phase. Creating Desire. Without arousing her senses before you meet, it’s twice as hard to get past her defenses and talk your way into creating lust. How you carry yourself in public is of vital interest to women.
It signals if you are a Strong Dominant Male who has a clear sense of direction in life; a semi-cocky confident guy with charisma, social status, potential wallet, standards, and a sense of humor.
Fortunately these are acquired skills. This is why when you stroll around the town you see beautiful girls with average looking guys. These guys have figured out the game, and know how the system of attraction works. In some ways, having male model looks can actually work against you. Women immediately assume you are a player, and respond in a guarded, defensive manner. More than anything, they fear being labeled a slut, just another notch in Brett Tate’s or someone’s belt. If you want to take it up a notch, stack the cards in your favor. A lot of this role-playing stuff will seem funny at first, but if that’s what they want to see before shedding their panties, that’s what they’ll get.
When it comes to picking up women, it doesn’t matter whether you are short, bald, or ugly. If your sexual chemistry triggers her inner emotions, and you project value and status, beautiful women will say yes. Why?
It is a natural genetic selection process for women of all species to seek dominant men who appear to be Leaders of the Pack. They want Men who are strong, stable, and competitive; boyfriends who create an environment where women feel safe and secure around them. Not so much physically safe, although that certainly helps. Safe, meaning she is comfortable being alone with you anytime, anywhere. Safe, meaning having she has no fear of introducing you to her family or friends, (of course her posse will still shred you to pieces behind your back). By secure, this means she sees you as very confident in yourself and career, and going places in life. Having a strong first impression, alpha presence, combining mystery about your life, and being distant to unavailable (a challenge) accomplishes this image.
Now in the big picture when they shop for a husband, that’s when the inner whore instincts take over. They want to feel stable and “secure” with your assets, income earning potential, carefree spending habits, and willingness to put up with their crap. Your looks and personality are optional at this level. They all dream of a man to finance a Hollywood lifestyle, without having any responsibilities of their own; a beta-male security blanket who they can control. Many of them throw in boning Biff on the side, to “get even” for imaginary problems they project on their husband. Once married, their goal is to quit working, quit the gym, pack on breeding pounds and maybe reproduce. Baby or not, they have no intention of reversing the process. In just a few short years, most will look and act like a complete stranger. The fun girl and the great sex become a distant memory. Women never admit to it, but 8 out of 10 wives do this. Not to worry, you’ll never admit upfront you have no intention of satisfying her big picture desires. We all have a dream, honey.
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